I hate my father!

So I havn't posted anything about my dad on this blog. But, 2 years ago in May, me and my mom called the police on my dad for demestic violence. It took me more than 6 months to be able to talk to him. I still wander if communicating after the inncident was a good idea. I spent time with him, talked to him, invited him to by partys, and even complained to my mom that he was giving me no money at all. He only gives me money for my birthday and holidays. Not Even! The money he gives me on those days comes out from what he gives to my mom. Well, let me just tell you, the days that I spent talking/going out with him were sometimes ok and sometimes more abuse. But, in these cases, verbal abuse. So, yesturday, he called me for the first time since he hurt me on my birthday, September 10th. He asked me how I was and I resoponded with good. He gave me his "NEW" number and told me not to give it to anybody. But, really, I didn't even want to give it to myself. Then, he asked how dance was, confirmation was, and school was. I responded to them all with a good. He then told me that he was getting an appartment of his own and that he was going to be coming over to get his (junky as I think) stuff from out house. Right then and there, I felt like saying, "Good for you bastard. Have a great fucking life! Dont involve me in it and don't even think your going to ruin me and mommy again because I don't have to take that crap from you and neither does she. Nice to know that you don't even want to work something out with your family before getting a freaking appartment." However, I didn't say a word. I dont know what I should do anymore. Should I include him in my life and make an effort to think he's a real father or should I deny his calls? When he does give me something for x-mas, I wont take it. I'm going to respond with a, "Your gift doesn't mean a thing after all the days I went without talking to you, the days that went by that you didn't make an effort to be a father, the times you hurt me, the arguments that you caused, and the ways you acted stupid for no reason at all. They dont mean one single thing to me and you certainly dont either. You dont even care how bad you hurt me. All you care about is you and your life." I.CANT.LIVE.WITH.THIS.FEELING.ANYMORE! This stress needs to go and the only way to get it off me is to LET GO. I just need to think if its what I should do. Is there anybody out there who can help me? Throw him away or attempt it again?